Your dream will become a reality.
What if I told you that the one thing you've always wanted in life will come true? That one burning desire that keeps you up at night, the one thing that can transform your life forever, will become a reality?
Because it will.
No matter how big that dream of yours is, you have the capacity to accomplish anything you put your heart and soul into. Nothing is "too aspirational." For the people who tell you that your dreams are too grandiose, what do they know about your life or your ambitions? Do they know your work ethic or how dedicated you are towards your goals?
You are in charge of your own life and your own decisions. It's up to you to decide what kind of life you want to live and what you want to accomplish. No goal is too much, we have to stop putting these "overly aspirational" dreams above us and instead we have to let them work in our favour.
Why we don't accomplish our dreams
Everyone has big dreams. Though how many of those people realize those dreams?
One of the main reason as to why we don't pursue them is because we think they're unattainable. We believe that it's so far out of reach, we start to think, "what's the point of trying if it's practically impossible?"
Let me tell you something... If we keep having this attitude towards our aspirations, then nothing will get done, and therefore this dream will become a distant memory. This is what makes our dreams unattainable. Sitting there and doing nothing about it will lead you nowhere, whereas being productive will bring you one step closer towards your goal.
Take my exercise routine as an example...
I wanted to strengthen my core muscles, so I decided to implement some simple exercises that will target my abdomens. I started slow, yes, but I was consistent. Doing a 1 minute plank doesn't seem like a lot, but over time you start to notice major changes. Mind you, I was only working on my core muscles 3 times a week for 5 minutes or less. After a few months, I noticed my stomach was more toned and I felt stronger.
Now this is an example of a smaller goal I had set for myself. I realize that many of us have even bigger aspirations that we find to be difficult to navigate due to many circumstances. However, tackling this notion that a dream of ours is "impossible" is the first step towards achieving anything. It allows you to think big without limiting yourself because you'll never know your full potential until you set those aspirational goals.
The fact is, you need to be hungry enough to keep going in order to realize your dream. If you narrow down on that one thing you want to accomplish and you are dedicated enough to keep pushing forward, you will realize that dream of yours, there's no doubt in that.
I believe that the one crucial aspect to achieve your dream is your ability to trust yourself throughout the process.
You need to trust yourself
Working towards a goal without trusting yourself is like going into a battle without any training. Once you start to doubt yourself, your vision gets clouded and your desire for that dream starts to fade away. In order to keep going and realize anything in life, you need to believe that you are able to accomplish that dream. There may be days whereby you doubt your abilities, which is completely normal. It's not realistic to be 100% positive all of the time. However, having the strength to bounce back and remind yourself that you can do this will set you up for success.
Think about it this way: Would you rather quit right now when you've already put in so much work, throwing away everything you've built because of your doubts... Or would you rather keep pushing through the challenges and experience a moment of discomfort while making progress towards your dream? With every step you take, you become 1 step closer towards reaching your goal. The worst thing you can do is give up when you're steps away from the finish line, and you may not even know it!
There is a reason why you have that specific goal in mind. There is a reason why you made a promise to yourself to achieve this dream, no matter what. You trusted yourself just enough to get you kickstarted towards this journey of realizing that dream. Don't let yourself down by backing out when a ripple of doubt arises. Those are just temporary thoughts that are completely normal, whereby even the most successful individuals experience this shared feeling. If you trusted yourself enough to set actionable goals towards achieving your dream, then you are more than capable in trusting yourself until that dream becomes your reality.
Live in your dream right now
I want you to envision how your life will look like when you accomplish that dream of yours. How rewarding it will feel to realize that one thing you once thought was impossible. The hours spent working towards your goals and the sacrifices you had to make will be for a greater cause.
You may feel like your dreams are miles away, but you'll never get to the finish line if you don't begin at the starting line.
If you are reading this right now, I want you to know that your dreams are possible. You have the capacity to accomplish anything... Even if others doubt your ability to realize this dream, what matters is your belief in yourself. You need to trust yourself during this crucial process, it may be the only thing that will keep you going.
Take this as a sign to work towards that dream of yours. I know you can do this, and deep down I am pretty sure that you know your dream will come into fruition.